Is your marriage ending? Are you overwhelmed with what you need
to do to end it? Finding the right lawyer is one part of the
divorce process. Read on to see how you can find the right lawyer
for you.
Steps
- Begin by educating yourself on the divorce laws of your state
using the web. Take a look at the external links listed below to
start with.
- Think about what kind of attorney you want. Do you prefer an
aggressive attorney who will fight to get you everything on your
list, or one who will simply put the paperwork through?
- Call your state bar association. They often have a referral
number as well as online guides. Some even offer divorce
seminars.
- Ask friends and family for names of attorneys they have used
and trust.
- Interview at least 3 family law attorneys before making a
decision.
- Hire your attorney feeling confident that you did your
research.
Tips
- Knowing a bit about the divorce laws in your state will help
you better choose the type of lawyer you want.
- Ask how much the divorce will cost you and how long it will
take.
- Create a divorce strategy with your attorney. Being clear on
what actions need to taken and when will help you save money.
- Consider using a divorce mediator instead of or in addition to
an attorney. They can help resolve issues without a courtroom
battle, and usually at a significantly lower cost.
- Determine how computer-savvy your lawyer is. He or she will
usually be charging by the hour. A highly computer literate lawyer
will be less expensive in the end.
Warnings
- Don't use your lawyer as a therapist. It will cost you and they
are not qualified.
- Before you meet with a lawyer, ask if they charge a fee for a
consultation.
- Just because the lawyer came highly recommended from your best
friend when they got divorced doesn't mean they will be the right
attorney for you.
- If you have children, and your divorce is simply about
compatibility, genuinely think about how it will affect them
overall. They are your responsibility.
