How to Choose the Right Divorce Lawyer
Is your marriage ending? Are you overwhelmed with what you need to do to end it? Finding the right lawyer is one part of the divorce process. Read on to see how you can find the right lawyer for you.
Steps
- Begin by educating yourself on the divorce laws of your state using the web. Take a look at the external links listed below to start with.
- Think about what kind of attorney you want. Do you prefer an aggressive attorney who will fight to get you everything on your list, or one who will simply put the paperwork through?
- Call your state bar association. They often have a referral number as well as online guides. Some even offer divorce seminars.
- Ask friends and family for names of attorneys they have used and trust.
- Interview at least 3 family law attorneys before making a decision.
- Hire your attorney feeling confident that you did your research.
Tips
- Knowing a bit about the divorce laws in your state will help you better choose the type of lawyer you want.
- Ask how much the divorce will cost you and how long it will take.
- Create a divorce strategy with your attorney. Being clear on what actions need to taken and when will help you save money.
- Consider using a divorce mediator instead of or in addition to an attorney. They can help resolve issues without a courtroom battle, and usually at a significantly lower cost.
- Determine how computer-savvy your lawyer is. He or she will usually be charging by the hour. A highly computer literate lawyer will be less expensive in the end.
Warnings
- Don't use your lawyer as a therapist. It will cost you and they are not qualified.
- Before you meet with a lawyer, ask if they charge a fee for a consultation.
- Just because the lawyer came highly recommended from your best friend when they got divorced doesn't mean they will be the right attorney for you.
- If you have children, and your divorce is simply about compatibility, genuinely think about how it will affect them overall. They are your responsibility.
