How To Find "The One" - And Keep
Him!
Hello girls. We know why you're here... so stop stamping
your feet in frustration and yelling "I WANT A
MAN!!" It's time to get pro-active - ask
yourself some no-nonsense questions, stop settling for sub-standard
guys and take ten easy steps along the road to Mr
Right...
1. Get over
past mistakes...
Stop right there, lady. Before we go any
further you need to ditch that emotional
baggage. Whether you're single and bitter or
dumped and desperate, you can't make someone else happy if you're
miserable. We all make mistakes - so learn from
them. And don't do it again!
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Are
you over Mr Wrong?
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Feeling rejected?
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Is
your ex still on the scene?
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Single and sick of it?
2. Figure out
what you want...
It's time to delve deep - and be honest.
Develop a Mr Right Radar by settling on 5 absolute must-have
qualities for your long-term partner (don't waste your list on
toned abs and smouldering eyes!) and don't forget them when you
meet a sleazy charmer. Do you want a soulmate or
a practical partner? Toyboy, creative type,
intellectual, man's man or high earner? But
don't be scared to adjust your radar if Cupid strikes unexpectedly:
they say love conquers all...
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Looking for your soulmate?
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Fancy
a younger man?
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What
would a personal ad say about you?
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What is this 'relationship' thing, anyway?
3. Look a
million dollars without spending a million
dollars...
It may sound shallow, but the old "look good, feel good" maxim
rings true when you're stuck in a rut. You don't
have to do anything drastic, but a little bit of pampering can work
wonders for your self esteem. Visit a big
department store for a free makeover, hit the gym or let your
most-trusted hairdresser choose a sexy new hair-do for you - then
wait for the compliments to roll in! When you're
radiating good vibes, blokes can't help but notice.
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Bored
of the way you look?
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Wish you were
slimmer?
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Do blondes
really have more fun?
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Lifeless
hair? Fix it!
4. Get some
balls!
Confident women are magnetic: men see them as sexier, more
positive and less needy than most. But don't panic if you're more
wallflower than woman - confidence is a learned skill, not a
birthright. It's easy to envy girls who ooze sex
and self-assurance, but it's almost as easy to become one - and
it's one hell of a turn-on for him and for
you. Just remember that 'confident' is not the
same as 'loud and overbearing', and 'self-assurance' is not the
same as 'ball-breaking bitch'!
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Make me more confident!
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Want men to approach you?
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Hate your body?
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Catch his eye on the way to work...
5. Ditch
dating and get a life instead...
It's one short step from dedicated dater to bunny boiler - so if
dating has become your one and only hobby, it's time to get a
life. Romance is a meeting of minds, and guys
dig girls who can talk about something other than themselves
(fascinating as you are!). Think lateral - take up a new hobby,
join a club, learn to cook, start a campaign, get creative... and
get out of the house. When
you're passionate about something other than love, finding a
like-minded man to share that passion with becomes a whole
lot easier...
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Be a sexy
chef...
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Work it,
girl!
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Sow
the seeds of love.
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How to manipulate men...
6. Impress
him - and his mates...
Most blokes think women just aren't as funny - or as fun - as
their male mates, but get ready to prove them
wrong. Use your feminine wiles and flirting
skills to hold your own amongst the boys and leave them
speechless... or wrapped around your little
finger! It's not about beer, lewd jokes and
poker - it's about being sexy, witty and staying one step
ahead of the guys. Why not win some cash off
them while you're at it?
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Clueless
flirt?
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Be a pool shark...
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Read his mind.
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Steal his beer money!
7. Weed out
the liars and the cheats...
It's a cliché, but good girls love bad boys, and bad boys love
good girls... until the next one comes along. If
you're looking for no-strings sex, then have fun - because there's
nothing sexier than a scoundrel! But if you want
to keep him without worrying where he is at night then
remove the rose-tinted glasses and approach with
caution. Learn to spot the liars and low-down
dirty cheats before you fall for them and you'll save yourself a
lot of heartache and wasted time.
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Is he lying to you?
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Where
did he really go last night?
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Spot a cheat CSI-style.
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Ready
to share your man?
8. Know when
he's interested...
Sexual attraction is a minefield of secret signals and unspoken
rules. You could be forgiven for feeling like you need a psychology
degree to navigate the body language
battlefield... Stop and consider how many times
you may have walked away from a conversation unaware of his subtle
flirtations - and how many times he might have been just as
confused by you. Take the bull by the horns and
make yourself understood: it's not the 1940s, lady, and guys love a
girl who's upfront and into them.
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Is he attracted to you?
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Grab
those horns!
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Ask
him out - we dare you.
9. Be a sexy
minx!
They say men go ga-ga for a woman who's a mother in the kitchen
and a no-holds-barred minx in the bedroom.
Sounds like a tall order to us... so ditch the pots and pans and
focus on the fun side. Open
your mind, grab a copy of the Kama Sutra, rent some steamy movies,
put together a saucy soundtrack and up your sex-factor by mastering
a couple of choice moves that are guaranteed to get him hot and
bothered. Let your imagination run wild... and
let the local take-out take care of dinner!
You'll have better things to do.
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Get him revved up...
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Dirty
talk for good girls (and boys)
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Dance
like Dita Von Teese
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Feeling
really adventurous?
10. Make yourself more than a
one-night stand...
The move from 'notch on the bedpost' to newlywed is a
complicated one. The super-hot girl he lusts
over now is rarely the woman he wants to bear his children... Yes,
when it comes to marriage and reproduction (or even long-term
relationships), it's double standards for them and a major headache
for us. Time to show those poor, misguided,
out-dated men the error of their ways: not every sexy minx
is shallow, 'dearly beloved' is not dowdy, two-dimensional women
are BORING and you - yes you - can be fun, funny, sensitive
and seductive. He'll be astonished -
and ecstatic!
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Sex on the first date?
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Are you girlfriend material?
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Are you falling for him?
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Pop the
question!
That's it. Ten pearls of wisdom to help you on your
man-hunt. Think of it as an adventure rather
than a 'To Do' list and remember: the path to true love may not run
smooth, but at least it's interesting! Good luck
girls...
Lots of love,
Videojug.
