How To Never Work At A Relationship Again

People often think that a long lasting relationship takes work, but love is the opposite of work. Instead, improve your relationship the easy way.

 Steps

1. Take a break. Eat. Rest. Get yourself together first.
2. Think design. If the problem still exists, get creative.
3. Imagine a more perfect life. Toss around ideas. Play with possibilities. Express how you'd like to feel.
4. Try new routines and make them fun. Make a special time to make love every week. Then put on the music and straighten up your home (do the dishes, pick up the towels, etc.) to help get in the mood.
5. Connect the problem with sex and love. It's basic: Doing the dishes = a mellow partner = more sex and more love.

Tips

• When you take care of yourself first, you'll be in a better mood and most problems will disappear.
• Love is a flow of information and energy between people. Open to the flow.
• Too often the problem isn't the relationship. It's a poorly designed life. Working on your relationship is hard. Designing a better life is fun.

Warnings

• Never try to talk out problems when you're grumpy or tired. In low moods, life is full of problems.
• If anyone is violent or abusive, it's time for outside help. Now.