Should a girl ever have to call a guy when they first start dating?
If a girl doesn't call a guy when they first start dating, a guy is not encouraged. It's called the "Scooby Dooism" of men. And the fact is okay, we will continue to keep calling you as long as you reciprocate the calls. If we call you Monday, and you call us back on Wednesday; we don't really like calling you anymore. We call you Monday and you call us back on Monday, and we have a short little fun conversation, it's a great time. If you call us on Wednesday, just to check in and say "Hey, how are you doing?", short and simple and sweet; we like that. We don't look at you as being needy or anything. We look at you as just keeping the momentum flowing. So if the guy is calling you regularly, you can start calling him regularly. It's nice to say "Hi!", or you can text him, and just go, "The funniest thing happened", and bring him back to some moment on the date. "The funniest thing happened! Oh my god, I went by and saw this ugly pug who was drooling on someone elses shoes! Do your shoes still have the drool mark? Mary". You know something that's fun that brings them back.
