Is there a "right" way to argue with a partner?

Is there a "right" way to argue with a partner?

Philip Van Munching (Author) gives expert video advice on: What's wrong with raising my voice during a discussion?; How can I avoid explosive arguments in my relationship? and more...

Romantic arguments are the most painful, because the person you're arguing with is the person that, psychologically, you are the closest with. They can wound you in ways no one else can. They can touch the parts of your unconsciousness that no one else has any idea is there, so when they do, it's really wounding. There's no right way to argue with a partner, but there are things that you can do during an argument to sort of minimize the damage and reassure the person that you're with that you are a reasonable person.