What are some cougar don'ts?
Here is a list of don'ts: Do not underestimate him just because of his age. Just because he's 20 or 21 don't think he doesn't know what time it is. Don't compete with younger women. Again, he's with you because he wants to be with an older woman. If he wanted to be with someone younger he would be. Don't start trying to buy him, buying gifts to soon because you'll turn him into someone that's just using you as opposed to someone that admires and appreciates you. Don't make the finances your sole responsibility. I know it's easy to think, "Well I have more money, so I'll just pay every time." Again, you're setting yourself up to be used and he won't see you as a lover. Don't show the young man off as a prize to your family and friends. He's not a show dog. Don't have a know-it-all attitude. It's true you may have a lot more knowledge in some aspects but he'll also know about things that you don't know about. So don't think that you know everything and he knows nothing. And finally, don't turn him into what I call slave boy. Just because he's handy and he's around don't think you have to have him fix everything in your house.
