Should I go through with the wedding even though I secretly want to cancel it?

Should I go through with the wedding even though I secretly want to cancel it?

I've had clients who have said, “well, if I decide that I want to cancel, should I just go through the wedding? We'll have the great party; we'll get all the great gifts. We just won't actually make it legal.” And you go, “Absolutely not!” Because people will be able to tell. Not only that, but you're fooling all your friends and family who love you and they think they're there for a purpose and they're not. So, that's definitely the wrong choice to make.