Won't people be shocked if I cancel my wedding?
Usually, if you're going to cancel a wedding, there's something that's wrong, and usually you'll be the last person to recognize it. So I say, from a coordinator's perspective, there have been times that I've asked a couple, "Would you like to wait? I've just noticed there's a couple things that really aren't right, and I'm not a marriage counselor, but you may want to consider." And usually they will say, "Parents have mentioned it to us before, family and friends have." So normally, it's not that people expect it coming, but maybe deep down inside they'd like it to happen, and they don't think it's right.