If I cancel my wedding, do I have to cancel all related events as well?
If you've decided that you're canceling your wedding, you are therefore canceling every single event that has to do with it. Now a days, most of my clients have what we call wedding weekends and wedding weeks, which would mean we would be planning 7 days of festivities, we may be planning a rehearsal dinner, a fun wine tasting before that, a great brunch after the wedding, things like that, so if that's the case, you really are canceling a lot of items,. I think most people would feel intimidated, saying well, I don't think I can do it then. You mean that my family is going to take on so much cost and so much loss for me doing this, I can't do it to them. What I would tell someone in that case, again, I'm not a marriage counselor, but I do work with couples very, very closely and I get to know brides and grooms very well. If you're not ready to get married, it's going to show in every aspect of everything you do, and it's going to be a horrible planning process when you could have just nixed it and said, "you know what I'm really sorry, I appoligize, I'm not ready, but as least I'm being mature enough to say it, as apposed to being immature and getting married."