At what age is dating appropriate for children?
An age appropriate time to date depends on many factors, whether it's cultural, it's family dynamics and family values and beliefs, as well as what's going on within the family. A child will want to stay home and not necessarily reach to date if they're happy within their home environment and safe. If the family does not have the continuity and the connectivity that they should have, and the functioning that they should have, a child will often times reach out to date earlier, or reach for another family, hence a gang, which is a family that accepts them. So if you have a child who's not fitting into a dynamic or a dynamic that's really not functioning well, your child will tend to want to go out and find their own, and that's when dating will happen earlier. Your child is a social being as you are, so their social life will evolve and change as they grow, so they'll start at the age of 3 to 5 and move on from groups and different kinds of groups, to riding in cars with other people, to then sleep overs. So it evolves in time and it's a progressive evolvement, and you will know by your child's ability to connect to that process, and their response to that process, about when to move to the next step.