What do I do if my children take my spouse's side during or after my divorce?

What do I do if my children take my spouse's side during or after my divorce?

The best thing that you can do if your children take your spouse's side is to really take them out of the middle by not letting there be one side or the other. And what you can then is talk about that. We both love you. We have two homes for you. This is not your business, to talk about money or finances. And that if your spouse continues to do so, even though you're acting in the best interests of your child, you really need to consult a professional. A co-parenting facilitator who can sit down with you and your spouse and talk about the negative affects that this kind of behavior has on your children. And if you ultimately don't get a result there, you may have to go to court and ask that the court order you to have this kind of counseling, in addition to ordering that the parents stop maligning you, which courts do in every case.