How can I find a date when I'm sober in college?
The way to find a date while sober is to appreciate that there's a truth out there. It's a truth that took me years to discover. It's called the Universal Rejection Truth of Dating and Relationships. The Universal Rejection Truth of Dating and Relationships simply states that not everyone I want will always want me. It seems very simple, but the truth is that not everyone will always want me. The difference with this is that, yes there's a truth, but most of us are stuck in a state of rejection denial. We never give people permission to not like us, to not appreciate us, and to not desire us. What happened is I came out of rejection denial and I gave women permission to not always like me, who I liked. The first step is that if you give the world permission to not always like you, and know you're really hot and really attractive, then you don't become so consumed worrying about what everybody else is thinking. You don't have to drink so much that you forget who you are, because the more we drink the easier it is to take risks. The more that we drink the less we care what other people think, because we're usually so out of our mind that we don't even know what we're thinking. If you can give people permission to not always like you and come out of rejection denial, that's the first step in finding a date while totally sober.
