When should I tell someone I want to date that I'm going through a divorce?
I think it's very important, when you being dating, that you tell that person right from the beginning that you are in the middle of a separation or divorce. That's because the person you're dating needs to know that you may not be there for all the right reasons. That person also needs to know that you may go back to that spouse. You may go back and forth to that spouse until it's only fair to tell the person that you are dating that you're in the middle of a separation or divorce, so they can gauge their behavior appropriately.