What do I do if my ex wants to get back together?

What do I do if my ex wants to get back together?

Lillian Glass (Communication Psychologist) gives expert video advice on: What do I do if I want to get back together with my ex?; What do I do if my ex won't leave me alone? and more...

If your boyfriend or your girlfriend comes to you and says, "You know, I really want to get back together," first of all it's up to you. It's what you want, not what they want. So think about the reasons why your broke up in the first place. You may think "Hey, this time was good that we were apart. Now we can get back together and try to repair things." Or you may think "Hey, leopards don't change their spots. I'm not going back there again." And that's OK too, because it's your decision to make. So don't feel pressured and don't feel guilted into doing something that you don't want to do.