Should I get into logistics upon deciding I want to cancel my wedding?
Give yourself a day; give yourself a day to think about it. Take a day off work. Don't do something where you're going to just basically postpone the inevitable and say “I'm going to make myself super busy for the next couple days, and then I'll really know.” You really need to sit down and do some soul searching. Take some time off work, take personal days, go to a spa by yourself, be with your closest friends, someone that you really feel comfortable speaking about it with and give yourself that time; because realistically people will come to me and say “Well do I really have the time to think about it?” Of course you do, because it's the biggest decision of your life, or one of the biggest. If you don't take the time now, you may be regretting it later on. Realistically if you decide after those couple days, or after those couple hours even, “You know what, no, I really do want to get married,” you're going to love the person that you're getting married to so much more, and they're going to see that, and we'll see that when it comes to your wedding day.