What are reasons that people decide to cancel their weddings?
I thought people that have cancelled for a couple of reasons. Definitely people have cancelled because they were not aligned in terms of their goals, in life. And I think that you definitely need to know if you can be with that person forever, and you need to know that person is going to be there for you forever. So realistically, if one of you wants to live in a farm and grow your own vegetables and have a 100 kids, and the other one wants to live in a city and be really involved with their work, then it's probably not a good lifestyle for you to both try to mix those two. And I think people in the end have said, "We love each other deeply but we are not compatible." And compatibility factor is not something we are taught young. We are taught, you are going to find someone, you are going to fall in love, it's going to be so wonderful and romantic. Whereas in reality, you really need to make sure if your lives connect, and you can be compatible, you can make decisions together. I think wedding planning actually is a really good challenge for people, besides doing some work like team building exercise or something like that. It's really the number one way you are saying, "OK we are going to pick about a thousand details together. I am going to compromise and I am going to give to you, and you are going to give to me, and we are going to be selfless at times, and we are going to be greedy at times." And you know if you are wedding planning together you can definitely have a successful marriage.
