What if I cancel my wedding and then change my mind?
For your own sanity and the sanity of those around you don't cry wolf, don't say that you're going to cancel unless you truly know that you are. I would say this: just think of wedding planning in general if you decide that you're not ready for any reason just take a break, just say you know what; I just need some time - be it a day, be it a week, be it a month. I've had clients who come to me and say I need three months off from wedding planning. Now realistically that puts us far behind in terms of process and I'm very honest with people you will acquire rush fees, you will acquire certain things now because you are postponing but realistically it's better than going through the planning process and getting deeper and deeper into a hole with your fiancé of not being able to communicate effectively and then deciding okay we should've just waited.