What kind of opposition might I encounter to canceling my wedding?
Some people do truly feel that even if you do not want to go through with the wedding you should still not have the shame face on and you should just go through the process. And I think right there will be a challenge. Maybe it's a parent, maybe it's someone that says, you know you're not only affecting yourself, but you're affecting our family name. That's going to be a huge challenge. If you're from a small town and everyone in town knows that you are getting married, or maybe your parents have already posted in the newspaper, the LA Times or the New York Times, that you are getting married and they've put in the engagement picture and things like that. That's going to be a challenge. That's something that you really need to sit down and say, I'm making this decision to not get married anymore and realistically you're not the one getting married. So you need to be respectful to your parents, or to whomever is the one that is saying please just go through with it and then we'll cancel afterwards. But realistically you need to do what is right for you, and maybe this is the first time you've ever stood up to those people. So it will be kind of like a double whammy of maturity.