What should I ask myself if I'm thinking of canceling my wedding?

What should I ask myself if I'm thinking of canceling my wedding?

Not being a marriage counselor, just being a coordinator - if someone called me at three in the morning and said, "Tiffany, unfortunately I can't ask anyone else this but you because everyone is just too close to me and you're an unbiased hired coordinator." I would say, "Can you see yourself spending the rest of your life with this person? And realistically do you want a wedding or do you want a marriage?" And I think that right there, if you can't immediately say I want a marriage not a wedding then you need to take a second, and you need to take a second look at it and just give yourself that time.