Are there bad times or places to discuss marital problems?
To successfully work through a problem that's occurring in your marriage, to successfully negotiate through the disagreement, you need some time. You need the ability to give each other attention. That's why environment is really important. You've got to set time, and you've got to create the environment where you can really talk to each other. Don't disagree in a public place; don't do it when there's kids running around or phones ringing. Go into a room, shut the door, turn off the phone, and have your heart to heart conversation. You need the time and you need the focus on your marriage.