Is it true that disagreements in marriage can be helpful?
Disagreement can actually be helpful in a marriage, because it forces each of us to stretch our perspective and sometimes leave our comfort zone. Disagreement allows us to really fall in love more deeply with our partner, because it's not because things are so easy that we're loving them. We're loving them in spite of things not being so easy. A disagreement can help us learn how to expand in that way. The most important agreement to have when you are disagreeing, is that you wont yell or berate each other, that you will be nice no matter what. That will get you through a disagreement much more easily in your marriage.