What is the key to successful marital conflict resolution?
Successful conflict resolution in your marriage begins with a win-win attitude. "I want to win and I want you to win." It's looking at each other's needs and saying, "What is best for the team? What is best for us and how can we make each other happy?" Now, this takes a little work; you need to find out what each of you need in the marriage. Don't just rush to a solution of conflict. Talk to each other. Find out, what you need here, what is it that you really want? Listen to your partner's concerns and desires, see what you can say yes to and find that middle ground. That's what creates the win-win situation in a marriage: both of you willing to say, "I want to win and I want you to win."