How do control issues affect the divorce process?
How one acts in the divorce process can ultimately determine what the outcome is. If you give yourself to the judge to make the decision, you've given the judge ultimate control. If you take control of yourself and try to do the best job you can as a parent, as a human being. If you give yourself over to your lawyer who is a fully for example a control freak he or she, if you let your ex control your future that may have done during the marriage, that will determine where you are as the process unwinds.