How do I deal with a spouse who's an attacker in my divorce?

How do I deal with a spouse who's an attacker in my divorce?

To deal with someone who is attacking you during a divorce, you either don't engage - you feign. They move to you, you move. Move away or figure out how to manage that attack. However, if you always don't engage during a divorce, you're going to get run right over. One of the things I talk about in my book is, if you're engaged in the legal wars of divorce, there are certain times you have to deal with it. You have to respond and frankly, to deal with a bully, often you have to attack bigger. Put him or her in her place, to end the attack.