What is meant by the term "attacker" in a divorce?
The term attacker means the adversary of the aggressive spouse during a divorce. There's a difference between aggressive and assertive. What I hope for within myself and within my clients is that they are assertive, they are in control. When you attack, and you do it in a vicious way, you're not in control. When you attack, in a way a surgeon does, where you take a knife and you surgically remove something, to me that's appropriate in what you want to do during a divorce.