Why does my husband always have to be in charge?
The husband does not always have to be in charge. They have to be in charge of certain things. Which means we are in charge of the guy things, of putting the gas grill together. Maybe we are in charge of the trips to the vacations. Maybe that is our thing. We are planners. But when it comes down to home decor, maybe we do not care about that. If you think about this in a relationship, you are in charge of some things. He is in charge of some things. That is what makes a good relationship. If this guy is in charge of everything and you are not in charge of anything, you are basically a puppet being manipulated by the strings and you need to have a relationship that is far more equal. So you need to really sit down and talk with your husband and figure out how to the get the relationship on even grounds.