Why doesn't he care about the wedding?
Men don't care about weddings because it's boring. Because guys don't care. Because you know what? Guys never dreamt about weddings. Guys never dreamt about wedding dresses. We never dreamt about our friends all in the same color tuxedo. Guys never dreamt about this. We didn't get groom magazines as a kid. We really don't care. As far as men are concerned we can just have one giant party dress and a pair of jeans. We'd be happy as can be. He's doing the wedding for you. We're not doing it for ourselves, it's all about you. And the quicker you learn that, the easier the wedding is going to be.