How do I start a serious talk about our marriage with my husband?

How do I start a serious talk about our marriage with my husband?

Any time you need to have a serious talk about marriage with your husband, it's something to be scheduled. Again, make time to talk about serious aspects in relationships. You could even create a 'relationship schedule': weekly you talk about the relationship and business stuff, weekly you have 'date night', weekly you talk about bills and things that need to be done. And then, weekly you have 'individual night' and you do your own thing, and you get to have your own down-time. So you could be as scheduled as you want. But, I think the more you make specific time for serious discussion about relationships, and you decide that ahead of time, you're both prepared to sit down and really talk about this openly. Let your husband know what the issues are specifically, or let him know that you need to talk for twenty minutes, and then get to the specific issues. The more you can really communicate in a structured period of time, the more comfortable it is for both of you to really be able to focus on that topic at that time.