What does a guy expect on the first date?
Out of the first date, guys expect absolutely nothing! Nothing! They, like you, want to connect with somebody. But, also, you've got to realize, too, and you've got to be really honest with yourself, because a lot of the times you go out on a date, it's either to have a relationship, it might be to set up your next booty call, it might be just to make you feel better because you just got broken up with. We all date for different reasons. So, the guy also dates for different reasons, too. So he doesn't expect anything. Most of the time, the guy is looking to see what's going to be happening on that date- Is she into me? Are there some sexual overtones? Are there no sexual overtones? does she look like she wants a relationship? That first date, honestly, is feeling each other out. You have no idea where it's going to go. Some of the time it goes to the bedroom, some of the time it goes nowhere, some of the time it goes to an awkward kiss, some of time it turns into a friendship, some of the time it turns into your next love. So you don't know. It's a crapshoot. Guys are equally as nervous as you are, so go in with no expectations and just enjoy the night.