How do I tell a guy I'm a virgin?
How do you tell a guy if you're still a virgin, very easily, you tell him you're still a virgin. It's going to come up. I'm about being very open and honest. If you're still a virgin and you're going out with some guy you certainly don't blurt it over the first drink, all of a sudden a glass of wine comes to the table, he says, "Red, white?” you say like, "Not red, I'm still a virgin." I mean you don't do it that way. OK what you tell him is that you go out with him once and all of a sudden, you know the first time you go out you're feeling each other out. The second time you're feeling each other out a little bit more, maybe talking sex, maybe a little bit and just go, "Look I have to be honest with you, I'm still a virgin", and it all depends on where you're at in your virginity scale. Do you want to meet somebody that, you want to lose your virginity when you get married or you're a virgin and you really want to have sex right now because you're ready for it right now. Those are two important issues that you need to think about because you need to communicate that to a guy pretty quickly. If you're a virgin and you're waiting for marriage and this guy is not that type of personality then you need to blurt it out immediately, right on that second date. Because he needs to know because he may not be able to wait and the fact is just because you're a virgin doesn't mean that you don't like to do lots of other things also. So it all depends on where you're at and honesty is always the best policy.
