What do I do if our sex life becomes routine?
There's a lot of things you can do. Sex life usually does get routine because people get very lazy in their sex life. So what you need to do is you need to spend one night a week creating a new type of sexual adventure. One of the things you can do is a sexual treasure hunt where you can actually leave little clues in the house, little clues in his office, emailing, maybe text messaging, turn each other on during the course of the day, meeting maybe in a bar where you've met, maybe you guys met at the bar, you met her in a coffee shop the first time having a cup of coffee, going home maybe the whole house has like candles lit or whatever it is. You need to do different things to spice up your sex life again. Maybe one week you do it, the next week he does it. Buy a book on tantric sex, learn different positions in sex, learn different ways to please each other. Give out a coupon for a night of erotic massage, do different things because if you're doing the same thing over and over again of course it's going to get boring. And I've always talked about that. I think I've read probably a hundred blogs about how to keep your sex life sparkling because most people don't know how. They get comfortable, they get bored, they give up, and 90% of relationships out there break up due to either money or sex. Money you have trouble fixing sometimes, sex you can always fix.
