What if he doesn't care about my work?
A lot of times men spend their entire day at work, and are just exhausted, so by the time he gets home you're both there, and to talk about careers is bringing work into the home life. So, a lot of times it's just about like, let's not talk about work, and if there's specifics you want to talk about in your career and you would like him to participate in discussing the career, schedule time. You know, make time to say, hey you know I feel that a lot of times you don't want to talk about my career. I would love to be able to get your take on my career, and because men love to be helpful you can set that time aside and see why he may not want to talk about it at certain times. Is it because he's trying to get away from the office? Are there certain aspects about the career that he feels maybe he that maybe he doesn't have great advice for. Figure it out, but take that down time to communicate, and try to figure out how you can get your needs met if you do want to talk about your career, and how you can create specific times for that discussion as opposed to all you do is talk about work stuff on your down time at night. That can really be a strain for the relationship at times.
