Does a guy look at his wife differently after she's had children?
It depends on how you look at things differently after a child. He still wants to look at you as a sexual, amazing woman, but the fact is if you just became the mother and you start mothering him, which a lot of women do, they start mothering the husband and the babies, oh yeah, then he's going to look at you a lot differently. You need to be able to separate babying states. You need to separate the baby from the husband. There's baby time, there's husband time. Husband time, husband still needs to be nurtured, loved, husband still needs the great sex with you, and he still needs to know that it's a different life with a baby. You need to have your very separate lives, yet your same life.