Does a guy look at his wife differently after she's had children?
After a woman has a kid, she is no longer a wife or a girlfriend; she is the mother of your child. So I think ultimately, things do change. Perspectives do change. And I think that it's going to be a different role that each person plays because it's no longer just the two of you. So you have to renegotiate what your relationship is, where the energies go and really make sure to make time for each other. Once a child comes, a lot of time the mom's energy goes to the child. And the husband or the man can start feeling rejected or neglected. And that's a real danger point. You want to make it a as bonding experience and also really pay attention to the relationship to keep that healthy. So after the transition happens within the few months, make sure that you're making time to really sit down and communicate together. And that your romantic relationship, or your relationship is a bond of husband and wife or partners, is solid and paid attention to. And it doesn't become all about the baby. I think that's really, really important to maintain the health of the relationship.
