When speaking to the dead, how do you find the spirit you really want to talk to?
What happens, let's say someone goes to a medium and they want to contact Aunt Flo. They really want to talk to their Aunt Flo who helped raised them. How do they do that? Well, they can put a picture up and send out mental thoughts to Aunt Flo. "Aunt Flo, please come to this meeting with this medium. Please try to get through to this medium. Please try to get through." The spiritual dimension is all mental. It's a mental world. So your thoughts are received there. It's like a telephone ringing, and they get it. They get it. They hear you, loud and clear. So at funerals and memorial services, they are hearing everybody crying, they know all the thoughts. They get it and they see it clearly. Clearly. So they can do it. What happens is that Aunt Flo will come to that medium and send thoughts to that medium. Now Aunt Flo might not have ever done this before, so she doesn't know how to communicate properly. Right? Or she can learn it, just like the person receiving the reading learns how to receive a reading. She can concentrate her mental thoughts and slow them down, because that dimension is very quick. Energy and molecules vibrate and move at a certain rate of speed. In a three dimensional world, they move slowly. Very, very slowly. In spiritual dimensions, it's very, very fast; very, very quick. So Aunt Flo is in a very, very quick world now. She has to come back to a physical level and mentally slow down her thoughts, slow down to that level. it is not always easy because she's not of this world anymore, so she has to mentally slow down and at the same time send to the medium, in their mind, an image, an impression, a feeling, cause as much emotion as she can, and, at the same time, try to deal with her death condition, because when she's back on this earth the first thing she remembers is her last experience, which is her death. So she has all this stuff going on, not to mention getting through to the medium's mind, which is a lot of bias and their own personal stuff. So it's hard. It's not an easy process. That's where the development of the medium comes in, where they learn how to discern, they learn how to close out their own stuff and be open to the spirit. So Aunt Flo will hopefully get through. I find that Aunt Flo's success is measured by the emotion. The more emotion that she comes in with, the easier it is for the medium to pick up that information and give it out, and sometimes they get the name of someone. A name isn't a thing. It's just an impression. So they can get that, or they can get a place they lived or they get details of Aunt Flo, what her kitchen looked like, what she's doing now, what her relationship with her family was, whatever it is. Hopefully, she can come through that way. There are definitely some spirits that are good communicators and some that are really bad, and, just like in life, there are some people who are very emotional and some who have closed down.
