What should I not say to someone with cancer?
You should not tell someone with cancer all about the people that you know that have been diagnosed with cancer and haven't done well, and have had reactions to their cancer treatment. This is because every person is different and it really doesn't matter how Aunt Sara reacted because your friend or loved one that is going through the cancer may have a completely different reaction. And if they're having a rough time, you don't want them to feel compared to someone, someone who did so well when they went through cancer.