How can I prepare for a legal war in my divorce?
You can best prepare for legal war by being organized, providing your lawyer with documents when asked on time in an organized fashion. Having a good therapist so you can deal with your emotional issues with your therapist rather than your lawyer. Use your time with your lawyer effectively and efficiently. Don't call up incessantly. Sort of like when you go to college, you make a list before you call home on Sundays. When you call your lawyer make your list, sit down with your lawyer. That's not to say you shouldn't call if you have a quick question but don't over stay your welcome because when you do have something important, the lawyer can easily tune out.