How do I deal with a fake reach for the check on a date?
When the bill comes at the end of the first date, and you're going to pay for the check, and the woman does the fake reach, where she reaches into her purse as if she's going to pay for half of it, you should take that as a compliment because she's saying that she's willing to pay, and that's a nice gesture. Its almost like a thank you. Now, if she does a double fake reach at the end of the first date, she's actually considering paying half, and its not just a gesture and it actually might be real. In which case, that's a clear indication that she's not interested in being with you in a sexual manner.