What are some tips for dealing with the stress of a big party?
Work with a very complete list. When you have a 'things to do' list, it calms the mind. Go over your things to do, see what has to be done, and work with a timeline. When you're prepared and you're clear on what you're doing, stress level gets low. Keep one thing else in mind: nothing, and I mean nothing, is ever perfect. Don't try to be Mr and Mrs perfect, just enjoy yourself. If you enjoy yourself, your guests will enjoy themselves, and you'll have a successful party.