What are some common misconceptions about soul mates?
Well the first misconception is that the soul mate is the ideal person. A soul mate, you know, if you vibrate the same frequency in the different chakras, you know, and it depends on how many. . .you have seven, so take three out of seven. You feel that instant connection. It's more than a contact. It's a connection. You have something really, really, really deeply in common and you cannot easily get your head around it consciously. Now, the interesting thing is that you think that that's great and easy, but there's also share of minds. And we tend nowadays to look for the similarities of opinions and choices and judgments and then feel that we are connected with each other. With soul mates, it might be another way around. I can be your soul mate and objectively we are a perfect match, but in the mind area, we can have different opinions and complete differences about the view of life or something or a vacation or food or movies or whatever you find out. People tend to focus on the mind stuff. So they've found their soul mate and all of a sudden, it's not the person that is so in tune with what they think about life. Therefore, it's more difficult than a karmic relationship.
