What is a "soulmate"?
Let me distinguish three types of relationships. The first type of relationship is a karmic relationship. Karmic relationship is that you learn lessons together but these lessons are kind of individually given to you. You have certain elements in your life that you need to learn. Your partner has certain elements, certain situations to overcome in his or her life. Karmic relationship is that you have a share of minds, your minds are alike, you both love certain movies, and you both love certain food. That's not a soulmate. That's a karmic relationship, 95% of the relationships are this way. Now, the soulmate is more energetically dominated, energy-wise dominated. You have the same frequency, the same vibration as the other person. If you have the same vibration that is innate in your system, in your being you will recognize that. However, you cannot consciously recognize it, but it does feel like that you have met somebody and feel that you have known this person for ages. It's like an instant comfort level. The lessons to be learned in the areas of the different chakras are similar. That's a share of soul, or share of energy which is so profound that it overrides the share of minds.