Can't we just talk about the positives of the relationship?

Can't we just talk about the positives of the relationship?

If we ignore the problems within our relationship, as with our unconcious, they tend to blow up. Unfortunatly, you don't just get to live in fantasy land and say, "You're so wonderful and I'm so wonderful and we're so wonderful together." You have to sort of constantly do this inventory where you talk about the things that bother you, because left to their own devices, they will overwhelm you.