Do men compare us to their exes?
Certain men will compare you to their exes because certain men are looking for that same woman over and over again. There are some guys out there, especially in Los Angeles that I've worked with, that like brunettes that are 5”3, 106 and a half pounds and not a bit more, she's got to be a lawyer. There are a lot of guys out there who have this weird type. If you've got a guy that is comparing you to an ex, it means that he is not over his ex. It means you don't stand a chance to go out with him and have a good relationship. The second you hear a guy comparing you to an ex, you need to look at the guy and say “You know what, I'm fine with all my exes. I'm fine with wherever my life. You need to figure out where you are in your life.” You can't start a relationship with a guy that compare you to an ex. There are a lot less guys that do that than ever before but there are still some guys that do that. If you get that guy, he needs to go and he needs to figure out his life before you can figure out any type of relationship with him. That is a huge one to decide.