Why is romance so important to keeping a marriage alive?
Romance is vital to keeping your marriage alive because it is the language of love that you speak to each other. The important thing is to know your partner's language, because what may be romantic to you may not be romantic to your partner. It feels like you are speaking separate languages. It doesn't even matter how long you've been married. You need to know what your partner's romantic turn on is. If your partner loves presents, that's the way your partner is going to feel loved and romanced. You might like to play with your partner or have more attention in terms of the physical world, in terms of doing things together, in terms of sharing experiences. Your partner will need to learn that that's how you like to be romanced. Romance is a language and it is the language of love and it is vital to your relationship and marriage.