What can I do if I don't like how my spouse kisses me?
What if you don't like the way your husband or your wife kisses you? Here's a game you can play: give each other a kissing lesson. Firstly, it's really fun. Also, you're going to really learn about how to kiss each other. One of you starts, and you begin showing your partner, by kissing them, how you like to be kissed. If you like soft kisses, start kissing them very softly, just the way you like to be kissed, and ask them, "How does that feel to you?" Give them a little instruction like, "Oh, so I love it when my tongue rolls over your lips, how does that feel for you?" Then have your partner show you how your partner thinks you like to be kissed. Take turns: then it's your partners turn. Let your partner show you how they like to be kissed. Kiss them back that way. It's fun and exciting, and you're going to learn something new about each other.