What can I do if my spouse is too tired to have sex?
If your partner says that they are too tired to have sex, what can you do? You can respect them and give them some space. You can maybe say, "Well, would you like a massage, darling?" You can take a hot shower together. You can do things that can arouse them, or not. But at least you'll be making a connection in your marriage. Do not give up. Respect their wishes, but do not cut off connection because they're saying they're too tired. Go for connection, even if it's not sexual intercourse.