What can I do when my wife's 'not in the mood'?
Often, a woman's sexuality is tied into how emotionally supported by you she's feeling. Show her how much you appreciate her, how much you value her. That has a lot to do with how a woman will open up to you in a marriage. Also, with a woman, you need to start from the head and then move down and stimulate her brain, stimulate her heart, and it will stimulate her. Often women get insecure about their appearance. If they've experienced any body changes through aging or pregnancy, they may not feel very attractive. Tell your wife how much you love her, how much you love her body, and how beautiful she is to you. That will stimulate her a lot. Here's a little secret: the place in the brain where the foot is, is right next to the place in the brain where genitals are. Stimulate one and the other gets stimulated. That's why when our feet get kissed or rubbed or touched, it becomes an amazingly sensual experience.