Why doesn't my husband initiate sex?
If your husband stops initiating sex, it may be because he has heard "no" a little too much. Men lose their will in the face of too many "no's. Time and again, if he face rejection, chances are he will stop initiating because even the active initiating hurts. Something else could be going on with her husband. He may be so stressed that he cannot feel his body anymore. If you are noticing that he is not initiating sex and you want him to, it's time to sit down and have a conversation about your desires and find out what is going wrong with him.