What should I do if I realize I'm a threatenee in my divorce?

What should I do if I realize I'm a threatenee in my divorce?

If you realize you're a threatenee, I would get some help. I would get some help to figure out how to control the person who's threatening you and how to control yourself from not engaging in the process that may provoke the threatenor. Now sometimes just existing is a provocation, that's not your fault. Sometimes it's behavior somebody engages in that provokes a certain response. You may perceive yourself as this threatenee and in fact, you may be the victim. But for example if you've just keyed somebody's car, you shouldn't be surprised if you receive a nasty voice mail, a threatening email or fax, or a legal pleading that demands that you to go to court to deal with the consequences.