What do I do if my partner is too busy for me?
Call, say, Hey, what about me? If you care about your partner, make a fuss because your partner may not even be aware. He or she may be sort of getting addicted to work and being busy. So stamp your feet, jump up and down and say, What about our relationship? We've got to make time for it. With any luck, he or she will respond because this is something you do have more control over than you might think, and then your relationship will get better. But the sine qua non of a relationship, what you absolutely must have in order to have a relationship, is time. No time, no relationship. If you're never with the person, you're never with the person. You might as well get separated.